Why are black people seen as scary or a threat to some people?

Plus, I’m actually quite adorable in real life. I am tan, short, soft and have a baby big cheeked face and fluffy hair. I’m a very cuddly looking person, strangers often come up and try to touch me, much to my dismay. I can’t imagine anyone being scared of me. I mean people have left their babies with me when I worked at the grocery store….. during my break, when that was the last thing I wanted to do. I did not want to spend my break holding stranger’s babies while they went to the restroom but I was a people pleaser back then and had a hard time saying no.

If I were a dog, I’d be a corgi.

(I did call my mom and apologize for the theft but she told me she actually bought the one I took for me so…..yeah….I still felt bad. I should've said something but I fell into the lemony minty temptation that is a good lathering soap made by the Amish peoples. I am ashamed.)

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What did I do?!

So that is my shame as a Black person this year….super evil I know….

I’m just sitting here trying to crochet a positive potato doll for my little sister.

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

I don’t see how that’s scary or evil.

The worst thing I’ve done this year was go over my parent’s house and take some scented soap. You see my folks go to visit the Amish people in our state to buy their goods, and they make the best soap. It’s natural, smells fabulous and is very moisturizing. You just can’t get this same quality at the stores.